Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Crazy!!

Many television Ads are weird these days. There can be branding and promoters to a particular product, but there was never a case, when two rival products are compared publically and shown as an AD to viewers. I strongly condemn this. The worst part is, both the products have gained so much of name and trust among people.
In the very first Ad, product A was compared to product B.. siting all advantages of prod.A, without telling the actual name...In the second Ad.. prod B is actually using prod A's actual name and telling the public not to go for prod A... what the heck is this??I am unsure, if there are no copy rights for these products?? or dont know, if public comparison like this is allowed. What ever.. its so insane..

Monday, November 24, 2008

Senti ME...

Yesterday (23-Nov-08), would always be cherished and remembered day in my life. It was JK's wedding. J.Krishnamy school friend who married another school friend Lalitha. There was initially lot of confusion to attend the weddding.We the fantastic four Anu, Arch, Nisha And Sai planned - dropped, planned - dropped and it went on and on, to attend the wedding.
Finally after all discussions, on the thrusday (20-Nov), we planned and settled. The moment I reached office on friday, a shock news was awaiting... Our team outing on 23-Nov shattered all my dreams... God...I started to make my mind... but was still in a verge to go for the wedding... not jus for the wedding couples..but for the great get-together after so many years............In the evening... an email came which said.. that the team-outing is cancelled.. wow...my dreams started growingup again.
Saturday night, Anu and I finally after 30 long minutes, decided to wear a designer saree.. and thenSai.. joined us and said he is gonno come in Kurta.. The night was a little sleep-less for me.. I was excited about meeting all... and various thoughts were running in me and when I woke up, it was 6 am... I got dressed up in a new black designer saree with simple diamond stud and pendant..hmm looked preety goodand yeah.. Sai's car came.. and i got in with too much of happiness... but was quite.. reasons obvious!!! We entered the marriage hall and our fourth person joined us... Initial 20 min.. we were trying to concentratethe marrying couples..had breakfast... then... started...we talked n talked n talked... the old school stories..... laughed, played, mocked, took pics... did all the things that one can do... I should say.. that, we all turned from our 20's to 10's... for the day... too much of happiness. Then after another round of eating, we started to pack up, as we were the only ones left out in the hall.. and we were afraid if they would ask us to sweep and go!!
Our second session of laughter and giggles started at Abiramapuram.. my house.. with 2 oldies (my mom and Anu's mom)We totally turned in to chilhood... we shared stories, we were reminded of the Switzerland trip bet, we talkedabout the wrong letter we wrote and caught by the parents, the money (jus paise) that we talk from our dad's pocket and go to chit chat, the puppy love's and flirts... wow.. it was great...
Many a times we have met.. but this meeting was worth a million dollar!!Finally the time came to depart... none of us want to go... but yea.. things have to move on.. we first dropped Nisha,then without zero interest I got down from the car.. I was not able to come out of the happiness we had.. rather I was jus too sentimental that I started missing themin jus 30 min... I was dull throught the journey with my mom...... In another hour, got a call from Anu.. we talked again..then talked to Sai.. exchanged serveral sms's... I am usually a little sentimental girl.. but I dont show out much.. Yesterday, none of us were able to control emotions...I just felt being senti at times is really good!!We would have committed so many unknown mistakes, would have fought, would have misunderstood, would have hurtwould have been hurt... but yes.. time healed everthing... I can say that this relationship that we had is not to bedefined.. its great!! Live long our relation-ship..

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

A quick relief!!

I was walking down from the train towards the stairs. A group of small kids, were walking besides me... One among the small kid, called me aunty!! Aunty Aunty Aunty..... and asked the time... I dint react to it immediately.. reason being I was unknown if they were calling me and I dint wear a watch. After a min of silence, another wise little girl from the group, scolded the little boy and said, akka time enna?? (sister whats the time?).. I immediately reversed back, took out my cell phone and said 11.30 ma...

I then felt, why my mom gets angry when I say her oldiee... 

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Wedding Invite





Could happen to me too :-D.. jus that there is a profession change in the groom's place... 
Note : Not to offend anyone

Monday, September 29, 2008

Great Hearts


This is one of the incident which actually startled me.. 
There was a family with both dad and mom as doctors and their son named Thenthran.........Four days back, he took his father's bike for seeing his friend and while returning, he met with an accident...The people on the road admitted him at Chengelpattu hospital and informed his parents and his parents took him to Teynampet Apollo Hospital...There the doctors examined him and said that his brain has lost his senses and cant give him life. Controlling the sadness the parents understood the fact and they should sacrifice his organs to the people........so they lended his eyes to Sankara Nethralaya...kidney  to Apollo to be transplanted...and they decided to give his heart to a person who needs it...
After checking out, they found that a small boy stuggling for life for a heart at Cherians heart foundation, Chennai
The heart removed from a person has to be transplanted within 30mins,.but they need to go 20kms. In a troubled state, the doctors in the Apollo Hospital called traffic police and asked their help. The heart is removed from Thenthran and is refrigerated to take it to the small boy.. The person who drove the car was asst. commissioner and he reached the Cherian hospital in time.

Hmm.. What could I talk about people like Thenthran's parents?? It was a kind of mercy killing... but they saved
3 lives at the expense of their son's life... 
There were many people, who said that his parents had jus played a doctor role but forgot the parent role... but
what ever it is... they have the heart to do this.. 
The saddest part is.. Thenthran is their only son and the name Thenthran means - a person who will attract other's heart
May God keep save his parents!!

Source: The Hindu!!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

London Tailor's...

I usually give my salwar suit for stitching to one regular shop. The shop is not Hi-Fi, yet they stitch well..(my type of stitching!!). Like all the shops, they give a card (receipt like), which reads, what order u give and what's the money you need to pay them... when you get your stitched dress back, you gotto give back the receipt(card) and get them... The front side of the card, talks about, the Shop's address, the contact number and blah blah... When I tried to call this shop, to find out if my suit is ready.. I really found something weird and funny!! 

The card front had a column that said www.londontailor's.com. I was kind of surprised(coz its a small stitching shop) to see, that they have a website and we can check our orders and stuff... hmmm but onething stopped me.. Can a website have its name with a "Apostrophe"?? I then removed the apostrophe and checked for the website.. it opened!! I was stormed again for the same reason... but then.. when I went in detail.. it talked about a tailor shop in Newyork!!

Hmmm there is falsification in everything!! People who actually see the card but dont go and dig in to it would feel, this tailor shop is Hi-fi.. hmmm When will people change??

I wanted to scan the card and put in here.. but no time to go to a cafe.. will do that soon!!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

LOVE..ANBU!!

What is the first thing, one thinks when they hear the word LOVE? It is often thought negatively, but to me it is divine, it is real. I am not going to discuss about love n relationship here... rather want to discuss the other version of Love "ANBU".
In my discussions below, I would have written love in many places, which just is equivalent to ANBU(in Tamil)

There are two form of people. One showing love to all, the other one keeping love within them.The debate here is which form of people is better. I would say, by and large in our society (in India), people hesitate to show their love on the other. Few reasonings that people give are:
1. They discuss that love is eternal and not to be shown.
2. They are shy to show Love
3. They often say.. "sonnal dhan love huh".. its understood
4. Talking lovy statements are not male prone
5. Be practical.. what is the funda showing love?
6. Some dont express due to the fear of sarcasms

and lot more... I am gonno discuss in brief about the reasonings stated here...

LOVE IS ETERNAL..
People still believe that hugging in the public is a sin and inherited from the western culture. The westerners are fast and do what they think .Common man.. I am not asking you to show your love on the all and do nonsensical things, but you can hug your parents, your loved ones and it is just a way to express your love to them. Even, I had a feeling of discomfort, but then realised that I am wrong in my thoughts. 

SHY..
I still remember that my dad, after my 6th grade, refuses to touch me. That does not mean that, he hates me, but he is shy.. shy to express his love to his own daughter. Even now, my mother doesn's kiss me, when I really 
achieve something... she is shy to kiss her own child. I am not telling that express love in such a way that you hug and kiss whenever you find time.. but do it when really needed and when it is to be shown.

SONNAL DHAN..
Even buffalo's and pigs tend to show their love on their loved and young ones by cuddling and caressing them... but we human beings with the sixth sense of MOUTH, feels ashamed, shy to say, to express our love, then what are we given the mouth for.. jus to eat, talk and gossip... NO... praise people, talk affectionately, make ur ones happy...Eveything in life is understood.. but love is not just a thing.. remember that!!

LOVY STATEMENTS..
What the hell is male and female in showing love? There is no gender bias in showing your affection. What if a mom thinks that she should show differences in love to her kids(boy and girl).. A girl, a bride enters the grooms life thinking that, everything is him, she pours tonnes and tonnes of love and care.. but in return she gets none.. I am not telling that the guy isn't loyal or affectionate.. but here the guy fails to show, what he has for her.. he becomes incapable of expressing his love to his wife, jus becoz he dont need to and he is a guy...

PRACTICAL..
How is showing care to your loved ones become impractical? I know, that the world and time is running faster and people are bolted with piles of work.. But human beings still exist, there are still marriages happening so on and so forth... Whatever comes and goes, lets give some time for us, for our loved ones..

SARCASMS..
This is mostly found in the youths these days. They tend to keep up their love within themselves, just not to get caught by sarcasms from their friends... are your friends gonno miss something?? at the end of the day, you will be the loser!! Give it a thought people(Paruthi Veeran's)..

I am not here to complain about guys not showing and girls showing too much.. whoever it is, show love. There are places, where you need to be strict, but every human has love and has to show love in one or other form!!

My feeling on Love is not intended on anyone, I generally want  to spread my thoughts and additionally the show in Vijay TV which I watched yesterday, inculcated a feeling in me to write this blog..

ANBE SIVAM...